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Thursday Dec 02, 2021

How to Support Children of Divorce

Thursday Dec 02, 2021

Cindy Grossman is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the Executive Director of Kids' Turn San Diego, a caring, non-profit organization that has been creating better futures for children experiencing family separation and divorce since 1996. Being a parent and a child of divorce, Cindy offers a unique blend of personal experience and professional expertise. Today, Cindy uses her combined experience to help transform the lives of families experiencing hardships.

Half of all marriages end in divorce, causing children to struggle with feelings of anxiety and depression at high rates. While divorce is never a child's fault, Cindy explains that children often place blame on themselves because they don’t understand their own emotions. To help break this negative cycle, Cindy and her staff at Kids’ Turn San Diego aim to give every child a place where they can express themselves and work through any negative, internalized behaviors. When children feel safe with their parents, families can overcome any roadblock.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy to learn more about the importance of overcoming childhood trauma, effective communication, and how to empower your children to express themselves so they can create a brighter future.

Quotes

• “Around 50% of all married couples get divorced and yet children still feel isolated and alone.” (12:54-13:04)

• “There's no decision that should be made without consultation between both parents.” (18:30-18:35)

• “You would be surprised by how many children internally think that they did something wrong which led to their parent's divorce.” (22:52-23:02)

• “When you gain insight, you can change things. You can realize you have no control over somebody else, only yourself, and other people can't make you feel any certain way.” (23:29-23:40)

• “When you empower a child to understand what a feeling is, give them a feeling vocabulary, and then you offer ways for them to share and express themselves. They let it out of their heart and they don't have to internalize anymore.” (24:22-24:42)

• “A strong mom is a mom who accepts that she doesn't have to be perfect.” (29:37-29:42)

Connect with Cindy!

Website | https://kidsturnsd.org/

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/happykidsandparents

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/kidsturnsd/?hl=en

Connect with Amy!

Website | https://hsiaolaw.com/

Hashtags | #hsiaolaw #askmamaamy

Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Thursday Nov 18, 2021

The Love Designers Guide to Post-Divorce Love

Thursday Nov 18, 2021

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions in your life, yet many people rush into relationships that aren't aligned with their souls. Witnessing many divorces in her childhood, Renée Piane, The Love Designer, was conditioned to believe that true love does not exist. As Renée entered the dating world, she found herself making the same mistakes she had seen in other unsuccessful relationships. It wasn’t until she looked within her own heart that Renée realized she was prohibiting herself from finding love. Today, Renée is on a mission to reignite the love in people’s hearts and reinvent their approach to dating and relationships.

Renée explains why it is crucial to learn how to love yourself before you begin dating after a divorce. Renée encourages women to be honest with themselves and only give their time to someone who aligns with their goals and desires. When you take the time to slow things down, you allow yourself to understand what priorities need to be set in your life and naturally increase the chances of finding success in your love life.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy for an honest conversation with the Love Designer, Renée Piane. Learn more about common dating mistakes, the importance of slowing down, and how to change your destiny by getting real about love.

Quotes:

• “The choice of your life partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in your life. Take your time and choose wisely” - Renée Piane

• “I help people that are reinventing their lives and want to make shifts and changes. I take a look at all the parts of their lives and then design a plan for them in their unique situation.” (01:16-01:29)

• “Every single mom or even single person that I work with, I help them to evaluate where they are so they can see that they might be blocking themselves with fear or sadness.” (04:42-04:56)

• “Usually in the 35 to 55 range, half of my clients were divorced and not finding love. When I would do an evaluation in classes that I was teaching, I realized most of them had heartbreaks, had bad role models, were from divorced families, or they just married the wrong person too quickly.” (05:52-06:15)

• “A lot of men really are happy when they meet a single mom if she's got her balance together.” (10:32-10:39)

• “It's very important how you come across when you're in a divorce. It can be very painful and sometimes you imprint your children not to believe in love as well, and that could push men away.” (14:16-14:29)

• “To me, marriage is a sacred bond with someone that's aligned with your vision and you have to take it step-by-step.” (24:42-24:49)

Links:

Connect with Renée Piane!

Website | www.ReneePiane.com

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/renee.piane

Twitter | https://twitter.com/ReneePiane

LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/reneepiane/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/reneepiane/

Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/user/ReneePiane/videos

Renée was a TEDX presenter at TEDxYouth@UrsulineAcademy.com in 2019 and her topic was “The Power of your Love Lineage

TEDx here | https://bit.ly/3qbA84P

Renee’s GET REAL about LOVE Book is available on Kindle, Audio and hard copy on Amazon. https://amzn.to/38FvcPQ

It’s a great gift for yourself, a friend or your X.

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Connect with Amy!

Website | https://hsiaolaw.com/

Hashtags | #hsiaolaw #askmamaamy

Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Thursday Nov 04, 2021

Aging Through Motherhood

Thursday Nov 04, 2021

Christine Lee is the Founder and Managing Director of Casa Companion Homecare Solutions, a successful home care agency providing in-home care to seniors in San Diego County. In 2015, Christine co-founded the first Daughterhood Circle in San Diego. Daughterhood Circle is a support group and brain trust for caregivers dealing with the challenges of eldercare. While maintaining her role in the community, Christine is also a mother to three daughters, all under five years old, and a daughter of an aging mother.

Christine shares the biggest challenge she has faced in her life. Two weeks after finding out she was pregnant with her first child, Christine was diagnosed with breast cancer. Since she was pregnant, Christine was limited in treatment options and was forced to make decisions no mother should have to make. Together, Christine and her husband patiently waited nine months to bring their first daughter into the world before beginning the appropriate treatment for her cancer. Christine says her mother's example of what strength looks like in motherhood has guided her through navigating her own challenges with motherhood.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy to learn more about the importance of long-term care and how Christine has managed to maintain her career while balancing motherhood and being a caregiver.

Quotes:

• “One of the most challenging obstacles that I've gone through actually started right when I found out I was pregnant. In 2015, Gabriel and I had just found out that we were pregnant with our first child. We were super excited and really happy and then two weeks later, I was actually diagnosed with breast cancer.” (01:51-02:12)

• “My husband and I are good partners, and we know what we have to do together.” (08:34-08:37)

• “Because of the type of work that I do, I know what's involved in terms of getting ready for long-term care. And I’m at the point where I'm trying to get my parents ready to make sure that they age in a place where they want to be.” (11:06-11:21)

• “There's a lot of education that goes along with aging and long-term care planning in general.” (12:38-12:44)

• “There's a lot of gratitude for the people that I care for, but also for the people that are caring for them too.” (14:26-14:34)

• “As moms, we already are the epitome of strength.” (15:50-15:54)

Links:

Connect with Christine!

Website | www.casacompanionhomecare.com

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/casacompanion/

Twitter | https://twitter.com/CasaCompanion

LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/company/casa-companion-homecare-solutions/

Connect with Amy!

Website | https://hsiaolaw.com/

Hashtags | #hsiaolaw #askmamaamy

Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

Website | https://primusfamilylawgroup.com/?fbclid=IwAR3DpPu4oopI9GFAZnfnnvrxFL19ONL0Z97PP5MWgOrObrmezpw9uvWVJls

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Thursday Oct 21, 2021

Boundaries in a Blended Family

Thursday Oct 21, 2021

“Divorce isn’t easy, but it doesn’t need to be bitter,” says Bonnie A. Rabinovitch-Mantel, Family Lawyer. After going through a divorce and transitioning into a blended family, Bonnie decided to make the transition from medical malpractice to family law. Bonnie’s first-hand experience in divorce and step-parenting opened her eyes to the need for strong, yet ethical family attorneys. Today, Bonnie runs her own firm where she guides families through the process of divorce in a healthy way for everyone involved.

One of the first lessons Bonnie learned as a step-parent was the need for boundaries. Even though she initially wanted to jump straight in by implementing her parenting style on the kids, Bonnie soon realized that she needed to take a few steps back. The reality is divorce is hardest on the children. Bonnie explains that having to adjust to new parents while still remaining loyal to biological parents puts a huge amount of pressure on kids. In order to prioritize the best interest of the kids, Bonnie recommends setting healthy boundaries that respect both the children and the other parent.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy to learn tips on setting boundaries, the importance of co-parenting, and how to make the most of your blended household.

Quotes:

• “You have to make sacrifices and decide when am I going to work? And when am I going to be a parent?” (06:38-06:42)

• “The turning point was seeing how my actions affected our kids.” (10:44-10:49)

• “Obviously you parent your step children when you're with them but you have to know your boundaries.” (11:15-11:19)

• “Not every divorce or blended family is toxic.” (13:21-13:26)

• “Divorce is not easy but it doesn't have to be bitter.” (15:06-15:09)

• “A strong mom is not afraid to tackle any road block in their way. However, they recognize the need for self-care because we know if we aren't good, nobody is good.” (23:00-23:12)

Links:

Connect with Bonnie!

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrimusFamilyLawGroup/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/primusfamilylaw/

Connect with Amy!

Website | https://hsiaolaw.com/

Hashtags | #hsiaolaw #askmamaamy

Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

FB: https://www.facebook.com/ChristinaFurnivalRealLifeMama

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Thursday Oct 07, 2021

Mental Health for Moms

Thursday Oct 07, 2021

Christina Furnival is the author of the "Capable Kiddos" series, a collection of social-emotional children's books that support children to overcome challenges, develop life skills, and thrive. Christina's books, informed by both her personal experience as a parent as well as her 10+ years of experience in the mental health field as a licensed psychotherapist (LPCC), give children the language and knowledge to grow in social-emotional learning. And her books don't just focus on the child, they provide parents, teachers, and therapists tools to best help them support their children.

Passionate about emotional wellbeing, Christina empowers parents and children in all her work. It is her goal to support and equip parents and children to understand themselves better, navigate challenges confidently, and live their best life! In addition to being an author, she is a therapist, speaker, and writer for her blog, Real Life Mama, found at ChristinaFurnival.com.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy to hear how Christina uses her experiences as a wife, mother, and psychotherapist to create children’s books that support mental health for children and their parents.

Quotes:

“If you can get on the same level as your children to play with them and incorporate themes into the play, they will learn. Children learn through play and it feels more indirect.” (08:16-08:25)
“Motherhood should be life-changing, but motherhood should not be earth-shattering.” (13:14:-13:19)
“I would define a strong mom as someone who doesn't do it all. I would define a strong mom as someone who recognizes their strengths and the areas they aren't as strong, or equipped, or have the time for but can delegate.” (14:40- 14:56)

Links:

Website: ChristinaFurnival.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/thisisreallifemama/

https://www.instagram.com/capablekiddosbooks/

For all of Amy’s Resources check out her website: https://hsiaolaw.com/

You can also find Amy on

Instagram: #hsiaolaw

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Thursday Sep 23, 2021

Strength in Numbers

Thursday Sep 23, 2021

“I’m grateful that the definition of strength has evolved & changed. It’s no longer about doing everything on your own,” says Niki Jones, Owner of San Diego Moms Blog. When Niki was transitioning to single motherhood, she found herself deep in stress trying to stay on top of everything. As someone who always considered herself to be independent, Niki had to learn the power of asking for help.

As a single mother and entrepreneur, there is no time for burnout. According to Niki, one of the ways she manages stress is by taking care of herself first. Niki believes that prioritizing herself makes her a better mother to her daughter and a better business owner to her community.

Her passion for giving back has allowed her to create unbreakable bonds with other moms within her community. Whenever Niki experiences hardship, she knows she can rely on the support of her loving network. Without them, she knows that she wouldn’t be the strong mother she is today.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy to hear more about Niki Jones journey through entrepreneurship and motherhood as a single mother. Learn more about the community that she created through her blog and how that community has transformed into her lifeline.

Quotes:

“The hardest thing was transitioning from a family to a single mom, and then to a business owner. It was a lot at once, and I tried to do it all on my own, but when you have a supportive network, and people you can ask for help, things become a lot easier.” (04:06-04:27)
“I think it’s important for our kids to see us put ourselves first so they can do that later in life.” (07:38-07:44)
“I’m grateful that the definition of strength has evolved & changed. It’s no longer about doing everything on your own.”

Links:

For all of Amy’s Resources check out her website: https://hsiaolaw.com/

You can also find Amy on

Instagram: #hsiaolaw

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Thursday Sep 09, 2021

Memorable Moments for Moms

Thursday Sep 09, 2021

Angela Quisumbing, event strategist and celebration specialist, has found some of the greatest joy in raising her two beautiful kids in southern California. While Angela always strongly desired to be a mom, she also knew that there was more to her identity. In recent years, she has pioneered several businesses that help other women step into their spotlights through events.

When Angela’s kids were young, she spent most of her time at home. With extra time on her hands, she began to develop ideas where she could be involved in her community and still maintain the stay-at-home-mom lifestyle. Initially, she crafted a weekly blog that shared stories of her journey through motherhood, which ultimately opened the door for her to expand her business opportunities. Eventually, Angela found herself partnering with local businesses to put on events so moms in the community had a chance to participate in something fun.

Throughout Angela’s adventures as a mother and entrepreneur, she has found strength within her community. During tough times, the moms she serves have always stepped in to make sure that the show goes on.

Tune into this episode of AskMamaAmy for a conversation about the importance of community. Learn how Angela maintains her role as a mom while pursuing her passion to help other women celebrate their successes!

Quotes:

“I was comfortable being at home with my kids, but there was a struggle. I loved being a mom, but I want to do something else. I want to be me.” (06:02-06:15)
“I want being a mom to be a part of me, not just one thing that identifies who I am.” (06:18-06:23)
“How can you serve the best way you can with the resources that you have?” (19:09-19:12)
“Deep connection and conversation is the heart of events. You can throw a big event, but if you don’t connect with anyone, and you're not having conversations that people are too scared to have, then you're not going to make a big impact.” (20:25-20:40)

Links:

Connect with Angela:

http://angelagraceevents.com

https://www.facebook.com/angelagraceevents/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/aquisumbing/

https://www.pinterest.com/angelagraceevents/

YouTube: Angela Grace Events

Twitter: @agcelebrates

Instagram: @angelagraceevents

TikTok: @angelagracecelebrates

For all of Amy’s Resources check out her website: https://hsiaolaw.com/

You can also find Amy on

Instagram: @hsiaolaw

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Thursday Aug 26, 2021

Home Sweet Homes

Thursday Aug 26, 2021

Tina Balch, previous restaurant owner and owner of TeamBalch real estate group, knows how to find strength in challenging situations. After years of working in industries that involve high amounts of financial stress and time away from home, Tina has found ways to establish a healthy work life balance. She is passionate about serving people in her community through education and providing services that benefit her clients in the long run.

Throughout her years of working in several industries, Tina has come to realize that passion isn’t always enough. Even though you may love to cook doesn’t mean you should open a restaurant. It is important to understand all aspects of running a business and minimize your risk by creating partnerships that bring diversity.

As a mother to a few kids, Tina has learned the importance of love languages. She spends time loving each of her children in their own love language, creating a unique and personal bond between them.

Tune into this episode of AskMamaAmy to hear more about Tina’s journey through motherhood and entrepreneurship. Learn how Tina relies on her faith to guide her through difficult times and how she harnesses love with her children that will last a lifetime.

Quotes:

“I love meeting new people, I love showing homes. You could never put me in a four-corner cubicle. I am not an office person.” (08:15- 08:25)
“When you open a business, you have to be emotionally prepared.” (19:00-19:03)
“Sometimes skills are better than money. Skills will take you a long way. You can find money, but skills are hard to find.” (21:07- 21:16)

Links:

Website: www.teambalch.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/tinabalch/

FB: https://web.facebook.com/tina.balch?_rdc=1&_rdr

For all of Amy’s Resources check out her website: https://hsiaolaw.com/

You can also find Amy on

Instagram: #hsiaolaw

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A

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Wednesday Aug 18, 2021

Unique Heartbeat

Wednesday Aug 18, 2021

“Whatever is in front of you, you have to push through”, says Stephanie Labile, owner of Unique Heartbeat. When both of her daughters were diagnosed with severe allergies and other physical disabilities, Stephanie had to learn the ropes on her own. She started Unique Heartbeat as a way to help other families in her community that face similar challenges.

The only option to find the right foods for her daughters is to experiment with them. This process can be traumatic and result in either one of her daughters going into anaphylactic shock. Stephanie finds her strength within her support system. The support from her family has helped Stephanie be the best mother she can be by keeping her girls healthy. Together, Stephanie and her mom have learned to read labels, and form systems that keep everyone protected.

Tune into this week’s episode of AskMamaAmy for a conversation with Stephanie Labile about her non-traditional journey through motherhood. Learn more about how to live an organic life on a budget so you and your family can enjoy peace in your unique homes!

Quotes

• “I always feel if I had someone who would have taught me, instead of me going through all of the mistakes, life might have been a little easier and less stressful. But at the same time I feel like that's my job and that's what I try to do for others.” (13:44- 14:01)

• “You don't have to have a lot of money in your bank account to be prepared. (17:11-17:14)

• “You have to keep going. Whatever is in front of you, you push through. You try to see past the storm and envision the rainbow that one day it is going to get better.” (18:20- 18:35)

Links

You can reach Stephanie on her:

Website: http://www.uniqueheartbeat.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/SweetOrganicLiving

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-labile-66b87aa0/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Sweets4EpiGirl

IG: https://www.instagram.com/sweetorganicliving/

For all of Amy’s Resources check out her website: https://hsiaolaw.com/

You can find Amy on social media:

Instagram: @hsiaolaw

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrvfMzTTbHslt3YxlZfDN1A